Trena McElroy Passed Away

I learned today that Trena McElroy, Ken McElroy’s former wife, died on January 28, 2012. She lived in Conway, Missouri, and apparently died of cancer. Although Trena rode with McElroy at the end, she was victimized by him at age 12. I always felt very sorry for her. She remarried in 1983, and, from what I know, lived a fairly happy life. I will find a picture of her and post.

57 thoughts on “Trena McElroy Passed Away

    • They’re scattered about. Some in Nodaway County, some in southwestern Missouri, and others in faraway places like Pennsylvania.

      • hi, Harry.
        Shocked that trena passed on, her updated pic shows ahappy woman, you mentioned some of the kids are in Pa? Do you know where abouts? I live in Pa in Philadelphia..
        Thank you for updating this story…

        • Trena was my grandmother, she died on January 24th, her 55th birthday, not the 28th…. I saw this while browsing and just couldn’t not comment. She was a wonderful, amazing, caring woman. She did not let her past define her. As for the question on where her children live, esp the one in Pennsylvania? Why?? This is something my family especially my Grandma and the 3 children she had with that monster don’t want to remember or think about. She moved on to have a wonderful life, A man who worshiped the ground she walked on for nearly 30 years, 5 more girls who called her Mom and so many grandchildren and great grandchildren than I can even rack up in my brain. She finally got the life she always deserved!!! It saddens me though that you only know(write about) the GIRL she was, not the WOMAN she became, she was loved by so many and left this world much much to early!!!!!

          • I really love this post. I completely believe that Trena was the wonderful woman that you say she was. I was having sex at 11 with grown men, so I can relate to what I’m sure she must have went through. I’m not sure if Ken physically abused her but I wouldn’t be a bit surprised to learn that he did. I was brutally beaten by a 24 year old boyfriend when I was 14. My point is that now I am a very happily married wife and mother of two and nothing at all like the girl I was. I know this is from an old thread but I am very sorry to hear about your grandmother. I wish I could have met her.

          • Trena was beaten and sexually abused terribly by McElroy. It’s a tribute to the human spirit that she was able to turn her life around and have another happy family.

          • Ken is my second cousin I think my parents were both adopted and I’m just learning about my family. But I am so pleased to hear that trena and her children were able to over come what he put them thru she must have been a amazing women

      • I believe the engine in the truck seized up because Mr. McElroy’s foot was on the accelerator and no one moved his foot or even shut off the engine. It was probably held as evidence and then junked

          • Boyles motors towed the truck from the scene held that it during the investigation and fixed the truck so it could be sold again contact the owner of boyles motors in maryville bud can tell you of that day it came in

    • this link is broken. I just re-read In Broad Daylight and would like to visit Skidmore (I live in KCMO), and also would like to see a pic of Trena that wasn’t with Ken.

    • Red died several years ago, and Steve Peters and his wife divorced and Steve moved to St. Joe, where he is working for an engineering company.

  1. I read the first book, In Broad Daylight. I also believe someone knew the killer/killers, but as long as it’s bin since the killing, I kind of doubt anyone will ever come forward as to ever get a conviction in the case. It will probably remain unsolved.

  2. But Ken may have done wrong, but he was a human being too, & looks like someone who knew something would have had the heart to come forward to help out in the matter. For the kids sake anyway.

    • Ken may have done wrong is quite an understatement. You have to remember people were terrorized and held captive in their own town. Law enforcement and the legal system failed. The fact that 45+ people didn’t see anything tells me that there was no choice in the matter. I don’t believe any of those people are murderers or bad people, they truly felt that was their only choice. You’d protect your family same as they had to protect theirs. I’m sure the only regret those 45+ people have is that they didn’t do it sooner. On paper, a crime was committed, but justice was nonetheless served.

    • The fact that she was victimized and obviously traumatized at a very early age was truly heinous. However, she had her opportunities to disappear or move on on numerous occasions and she didn’t take it. Instead, she contributed to Ken’s thievery, bullying, harassment, and assaults. At a certain point, she has to be held responsible for those actions. It was amazing the town folk found the restraint not to grant her Ken’s fate.

      • I think the shooters, or the man who pulled her out of the truck anyway, had a sense that killing a woman would do them no good, in fact would lose them the moral high ground. I think the Stockholm syndrome applies in her case.

        • I understand that was probably the case. The more I think about it, the more I believe the shooters/townspeople believed Trena wasn’t the problem. While she contributed to whatever Ken did, she posed no threat individually. Killing her wouldn’t have made anyone safer, but would’ve made the townspeople murderers in their own eyes. Killing Ken was justified and was a necessity.

          I don’t have any sympathy for Trena, however. She was a girl who became corrupted and was abused, no doubt. She doesn’t get a free pass because of it.

          • You have never been an abused woman!!! being physically abused takes numerous tolls. do not judge until you have walked in her shoes.

          • This woman had her childhood ripped away from her. She was young and he probably brainwashed her impressionable young mind until she without a doubt thought this was how life was supposed to be. It happens. Kids are easily misled by the adults who say “trust me” or “I can give you this and that” and they don’t have the maturity to turn it down, much less defend themselves. Give the lady a break. I’m glad she got away from him and found a better life for herself. I know she helped with the bullying, but she was substantially influenced and “groomed” by this child molester. People can change, and she proved this.

  3. Is Richard Stratton still living & living in Kansas City, & how bout Dave Dunbar? What did they ever do with the lot were Ken’s house was? And is Timmy McElroy still around? How’s Kriss Goslee?

    • Richard Stratton is still alive and kicking. He was elected sheriff in a neighboring country for several terms after retiring from the state patrol, and I heard recently that he was head of the state fair, although I didn’t verify this. Dunbar lives in Marvyille with his girl friend Bobbie. They operate a gourmet traveling food stand. The lot where Ken’s house once was still stands empty, although there is a trailer in the woods behind it. Tim McElroy still lives down the road and still works in a pizza parlor in a town not far away. Kriss lives in Skidmore.

  4. You know Harry, some day I would really like to meet you, shake your hand & get your autograph. You seem to be a good guy. But I live in eastern NC & kind of doubt I’ll ever get out to Colorado. I wish I was able to go to Skidmore & to Ken’sgrave to visit

    • I agree. My mom bought the book back in the 80’s when I was a kid, and I read it for the first time in high school. It’s so well written, or maybe since I’m from Missouri, I can totally see the scenes that are described in the book. It’s just fascinating.

  5. Oh- are we going to relegate Trena to Sainthood? She was cruel and her actions can not be disregarded. Obviously neither of them ever heard of the Golden Rule….

  6. harry my name is sam lewis. i lived in mound city from 1978 to 1996. i heard about the story when i was old enough to understand. ken was shoot on my forth birthday. i knew some of his family and the people in the book. the odd thing is sence june of ’96 i have lived in lebanon mo. ive done alot of surching on the story lately and am sorry to hear that trena passed. i feel sorry for all the women he terrorized for all the years. i know that the town never had any intent in shooting trena. they knew what she had to deal with and she only did those things becouse she had to. i am happy that she did get to move on and live a happy life. im sorry that some people dont have sympathy for trena. only if you are from that area could you understand what happened.

    • Thanks for the comment. I agree your feelings toward Trena–she really was grabbed at a very young age, and no one really stuck up for her, certainly not her parents–but I know others in the area aren’t so forgiving.

  7. Hello Mr. MacLean. Last night I just watched the 1999 episode of City Confidential of the town bully which got me poking around the internet. Enjoyed your book greatly and so have others I have passed it on to who have no connection to the area which I do. Enjoy reading these comments as well. I was born and raised in St. Joseph and my Mother who has since passed had told me that my Father (who died when I was 2) who was a St. Joe Police Officer knew Officer Stratton. Coincidentally, many of my relatives are at rest in Memorial Gardens within a stones throw from Ken McElroy. I remember visiting the bar/diner in Skidmore back in 2000. It was uneventful but had a great tenderloin sandwich. I will keep abreast of any public speaking you may have in Colorado as I now reside in Littleton.


    • Jerry:
      Thanks for the comment. I’m glad you enjoyed the book. Stratton is still kicking up in Bethany. City Confidential pissed me off because all of the info in the show came from my book and they failed to credit it. But that’s television.


  8. For some reason, the Ken McElroy shooting popped into my mind and I wondered what happened to Trena and Ken’s children. I had no idea Trena had passed. My condolences to her family. I’m happy she found happiness afterward.

    I’d read In Broad Daylight a long time ago. I’ve still got mixed feelings about the shooting. I’m not justifying what happened, but there were a lot of contributing factors and I believe people were legitimately scared and felt they had to do something since the law and the legal system failed them so abysmally. Maybe I’m forgetting that part of the book, but why was he ever released on bail during the appeal process? You can’t tell me the judge didn’t know Ken would react the way he did.

    • The judge, as you might remember, was from a different county. However, I’m sure that he knew who McElroy was. He could easily have kept McElroy in jail after his conviction, or set a bond so high he couldn’t meet it. Most people don’t get bail after conviction, pending appeal. Why he did it, we’ll never know. He refused several requests for an interview. I take him to task in the book.
      Thanks for writing.

  9. I just found out about the book “The Story Behind ‘In Broad Daylight'”, and I am reading it. Loved the original book, and would like to find the movie in DVD, but it doesn’t seem to be anywhere. Do you know where it can be found?

    • The movie was never released on DVD. You can find it on YouTube, or at least you could a few weeks ago. If not, it should be on my website. Many of the people in it have since gone on to some fame.

  10. I felt sorry for Trena to a certain extent. Perhaps she was plain and na├»ve but she was always aware of what Ken was doing; every day of it. Nobody twisted her arms to stay with the man. She made that choice of her own. It’s hard to feel sympathy for her when his bullying made her feel strong and secure. Without him around to protect her, she wilted back down to reality.

    • When you get into a situation that young it’s you really do NOT know what you’re getting into to. I truly know this because BELIEVE ME there should be a book about what I went through. Trena was a child who remained a child for years due to the stunt in emotional maturity that takes place when you are having sex etc. at the young of an age.

  11. I enjoyed first edition of In Broad Daylight and didn’t realize there was a second edition out. Ken McElroy got around a lot more than most people realize. I live in Lawrence, Kansas which is about 90 miles from Skidmore, Missouri. In late winter of 1981 I walked over to the local neighborhood beer bar one evening and encountered a tough looking guy who was intimidating everyone around him and just generally mouthing off. I took a seat close to him and he immediately started to pick a fight with me. Rather than put up with it, I just moved and finished my beer and left. The bar was called The Timeout and has since been torn down. I had never seen the guy before and I made a point of looking at the vehicles in the parking lot when I left. I remember seeing a Silverado with Missouri plates parked there. There was still a little packed ice and snow on the ground, so I think it was mid March of 1981. A few months later McElroy was killed and I saw his picture through various news outlets and realized who the guy in the Timeout was. I am absolutely sure it was Ken McElroy. I don’t remember seeing Trena with him and he was sitting alone. If she was there in the tavern she may have been playing a pinball machine or video game elsewhere. When I met him his demeanor was exactly like you described in your book.

    • Interesting story. I knew he covered a lot of territory, but I didn’t know he had made it to Lawrence. If he was out stealing that night, Trena was most likely not with him. Or she could have been waiting for him in the truck.

  12. This woman sued the town over Ken’s death. Congratulations should have been in order after they delivered her from his wicked grasp. In her defense, however, she may have been suffering from Stockholm Symdrome that caused her to love him so much…

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